Oh, gods. I am -- very glad that he does not have a car and is in Illinois while we are in Louisiana. Except she's going back to Illinois. She says he doesn't know where she lives, but -- argh.
And the thing is, he must have timed this deliberately, because he always starts up with the texting again right before or during our vacations, and he's left her alone after a strongly-worded spring break text (she wasn't in Chicago over spring break), but it's finals time, which means we're all going home sometime in the next week and a half, and he sent her seven texts in two hours.
And I have been reacting badly to this since she came back from summer break with, "I'm sort of in a relationship! We've only met once in person! He slept with my friend; they met through AA! He has a kid!" so she is less likely to take me seriously than anyone else. (She's also seriously worried I'm going to tell her dad; he comes in tomorrow.)
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And the thing is, he must have timed this deliberately, because he always starts up with the texting again right before or during our vacations, and he's left her alone after a strongly-worded spring break text (she wasn't in Chicago over spring break), but it's finals time, which means we're all going home sometime in the next week and a half, and he sent her seven texts in two hours.
And I have been reacting badly to this since she came back from summer break with, "I'm sort of in a relationship! We've only met once in person! He slept with my friend; they met through AA! He has a kid!" so she is less likely to take me seriously than anyone else. (She's also seriously worried I'm going to tell her dad; he comes in tomorrow.)